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auroradan
05-09-2008, 08:32 AM
Okay, here's the story. I've been looking for a 5 or 6 speed manual transmission for my 86 LT1 S truck since current 4l60e is on life support. So the other day while scanning Craigslist for my tranny I found this ad

" 1994 S10 pickup V6 & 5 speed, runs & Drives. Body dented $750"

I thought Bingo, http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif I found the NV3500 I've been lusting for.



Now comes the "Wife" part of my story. I had only $500 in cash to spend, so I sent an email to my wife [at work] asking if I can take $250 out of house money just in case I cannot get the price down to $500. She says yes! Now I knew better than tell her that the transmission was still in the truck, this would kill the deal for sure. So I contact the seller and set up a meeting time. I arrive, turn the corner the see a nice looking pickup and double check the address. Sure enough that was the truck.



Truck runs great and interior is in nice shape. Engine fires right up, no smoke or noise. The body is another story, seems prior owner had a problem [Jack Daniels] not running into things. One aluminum wheel is missing 6" of metal where it hit a curb or other some solid object. Hood, right side fender and door are smashed to hell as well as dings on the side of the bed. I take it out for a spin to see how well the transmission works. To my surprise she shifts great and no noises. I offer seller $500, he settles for $600, deal done. I call AAA (probably will need to call AA too!) to have her towed home.



With AAA following me I head for home. Just as the tow truck is backing into my driveway the wife calls to ask about my "Transmission" deal. I tell her that I was able to get it for only $600 and she congratulates me for getting a better deal. Just as she is talking to me the driver comes over to me and asks if where he had it positioned in the driveway was okay, I said yes. Now remember wife is still on the line. She asks who are you talking to, I say Eric. And who is Eric she says, well honey [said in a soothing voice] he is the guy delivering my transmission. She says [voice changing to, well I can't say here but you other married guys know] why did you need help getting a transmission home? I said I needed some one else to drive my transmission home. Wife [voice now in the "Red Zone"] says you better had not have bought another truck!! http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_evil.gif I say [with sweet, first date type voice] that no, I only bought a transmission and that it had a "few" accessories still attached.http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif You know like when you buy a used engine just for the block and you get the alternator and PS pump too. Honey, my sweet, I need to take care of the AA driver now, I'll call you later. She hangs up muttering something about a life insurance policy, buying some rat poison and renting a backhoe to dig a six foot deep hole in the backyard!



Now knowing I have set a fire equal to the one at Chernobyl I set out to calm my wife, have four hours before she returns home. So I took some quick pics [of the good side only] and uploaded to my photobucket account for her to see. She wrote back saying it was a nice looking truck, now how are you going to sleep in it since it is a regular cab! I gave no answer knowing there could be no right answer other than I was now drinking my Jonestown Koolaid. Later that day I told her about the dinged up side, but did not send her pictures (I'm not that dumb!)



She gets home [I'm now at my job, swing shift] and get a semi-nasty message on my phone. Something about me needing eye glasses and those are not "Dings" you a-hole [that's what she says to me when she's still mad but thinks I made a good decision]. She "suggests" I trim my herd of trucks due to limited parking.



It's been a few days since and the pulsating vein in her forehead is now it's normal size. I hinted that I might keep and repair the new truck and -cough, hack, cough, sell the 86 LT1 s-truck.



Now my problem will be the next time I come across a super deal for a motor, trans or truck I'll need a better story to tell than it's just a transmission!http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif



Here are

Good pics of my "Transmission" (http://i156.photobucket.com/albums/t4/auroradan/S15%20V8/DSCF2529.jpg)



And the bad side. (http://i156.photobucket.com/albums/t4/auroradan/S15%20V8/DSCF2533.jpg)



A-Danhttp://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/s01.gif

Melonhead
05-09-2008, 08:54 AM
A Dan, I hear you screaming. Or was it HER?? That was a good one. I had a simalar incident. I told my wife I had a good deal in some parts for my truck. I didn't tell her it was going to be parked in the front yard until I could strip it.. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif

85350DROPTOP
05-09-2008, 02:20 PM
She'll calm down, they always do. Or they leave. Either way it's a win-win. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif

grim_reaper888
05-10-2008, 07:27 AM
i would have bought it too. thats not bad for 600. fender and a door and your good to go.

it came with flowers and chocolate right?

lol

spacecadet
05-10-2008, 08:19 AM
You could take it apart and sell the extra parts on Ebay. Make your money back and end up with a free tranny. Then you could take her out to diner and a movie. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif Maybe...Gone in 60 seconds!! http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif



Althought that truck looks like it won't be too hard to fix. I'd just be worried about the firewall where the windshield appears to have broken.



Space

auroradan
05-11-2008, 07:04 PM
Droptop, Grim & Space,



Things have gone from bad to worse.... The wife is now talking about how nice it would be for HER to have a pickup and the new one is just her size! Time to fix HER truckhttp://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_hammer.gif



So much for my idea of using the NV3500 in my 86 Lt1 or making the new 94 a daily driver!http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_eek.gifhttp://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/member10.gif



Going out to the shop to bang my head on something hard http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif



A-Danhttp://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/s01.gif

Melonhead
05-12-2008, 03:14 AM
Convence her it would be easier to drive an auto trans. Can do a change over from the new truck to your for the NV-3500. You swap pedels and have her happy and you too. The only problem is having another project to juggle. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif

grimpuppy
05-12-2008, 10:29 AM
Why in the world did you tell her you talked him down to $600? You hosed yourself out of $150 http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif

spacecadet
05-12-2008, 05:25 PM
On 2008-05-12 00:04, auroradan wrote:

Droptop, Grim & Space,



The wife is now talking about how nice it would be for HER to have a pickup and the new one is just her size! Time to fix HER truck







A-Danhttp://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/s01.gif





That is a great way to get her involved. Sounds like she thinks she going to hop in and cruise after you build her a hot truck. Not a bad idea. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_eek.gif http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_eek.gif http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif Invite her out to the garage... to HELP!!! Give her a cleaning brush and give her a nasty set of valve covers to clean. After 1/2 hour she'll walk away and say 'It just aint worth the work" Or 'I'm bored' or ""???? this"" -- "You can have it"

Just make sure if you try this, that you make her think that its a good way to spend time together.

spacecadet
05-12-2008, 05:42 PM
On 2008-05-12 15:29, grimpuppy wrote:

Why in the world did you tell her you talked him down to $600? You hosed yourself out of $150 http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif





I have to 2nd that one. Soon you'll learn never to quote a $$$ amount to your wife. Since you spent $xxx then she gets $xxx to get a new "oooo' or a ' xxxx' or a '????' (what ever her heart desires at that moment in time . " ANd in the end it cost you 3 times as much if you would have never said anything to begin with!!! Always use discreation in the information you give her. Only give enough to keep you on the good side. Too much gets you into 'the discusion' http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_frown.gif " But never. Never lie to her cause if she find out you lied, that will bite you worse than telling her the truth to begin with.



Now for another thing I might say.... Take that info with a grain of salt. Or an old 'married" guy rambleing on. And the last thing is 18years of practice. Which either makes me whipped or stupid. Or just whipped stupid. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_confused.gif



Maybe thats why they call me... Spaced!

zellto1971
05-12-2008, 07:10 PM
Story of my life... cars, trucks, boats, etc.



She knows the deal. I obey dearly... for the most part.



She puts up with my habit... I put up with her shopping habit.



http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif

auroradan
05-13-2008, 08:44 AM
Why in the world did you tell her you talked him down to $600? You hosed yourself out of $150





Yea, I thought about that long after I gave her the $$$ details. I'm not a great lier, I'de never get away with having a girl friend.



Now my wife, she could write a book about "bending the truth". She has a thing for nickel slots and video poker. Always tells me she lost less than $20 or made $100. You and I know that cannot be the truth.



If I had a place to park more trucks I'd have a herd of S10s, they seem to give them away around here. Just today found an 85 Blazer for $350 thats needs a clutch on Craigslist.



Maybe I need a list of good excuses to use so when I spot my next deal, I'll know what say (or not to say) to get away with it.



A-Dan

85350DROPTOP
05-13-2008, 03:30 PM
That is a great way to get her involved. Sounds like she thinks she going to hop in and cruise after you build her a hot truck. Not a bad idea. Invite her out to the garage... to HELP!!! Give her a cleaning brush and give her a nasty set of valve covers to clean. After 1/2 hour she'll walk away and say 'It just aint worth the work" Or 'I'm bored' or ""???? this"" -- "You can have it"

Just make sure if you try this, that you make her think that its a good way to spend time together.



I would second space. get her to help. She will either quit, or if she is like my wife, she will fall in love with the hobby, and money gets much, much freer. Also, I would agree to still do the trans swap, she would like an auto much better if she is like most women. i would say this is actually the best thing that could happen to you, speaking as a happily married man. Good luck, and don't say anything stupid. http://www.s10v8.com/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif

mlhj
05-13-2008, 04:36 PM
Well for me at least my wife cannot drive because of medical reasons. As of right now I am on my 3 S10 V8 project. The first two didn't get done due to military duty and sold ever thing and now since I am no longer in the Army. I have all the time in the world to get this one done. Now the wife problem, Since I pork out at least $160 a week for tool payments out of my pay check and paying bills and high fuel prices. That doesn't leave much for me. A friend of mine that works for a junk yard I use to work for is giving me a 85k TBI 350 for somewhat free if I do some work on my old Bravada I sold him. Transmission I have is a core 700R4 for a truck that I replaced a transmission in. Got that all torn down to rebuild got to get the parts for now.



I just ask the wife if I could buy motor mounts tomorrow when she gets paid and she had to say no. I guess I might have to give her some sweet loving tonight and see what she says tomorrow. lol

COB
05-15-2008, 01:33 PM
Did someone mention 'firewall'?

Yeah,,,don't forget virus protection,anti-spyware and all the other goodies. You lost her trust,she might be watching you like a hawk now dude. Hehehe.

Hell,I'm a grease monkey in love with a computer geek chic with I know if she and I get together for good that all the money will go on computer stuff so consider yourself lucky to have even got money at all,,,and especially to get away with fibbing to her like that. lol